Can You Really Make Him Fall in Love? It’s Not as Hopeless as It Seems
Can You Really Make Him Fall in Love? It’s Not as Hopeless as It Seems
Is there anything else you can do to make him fall in love with you? Are guys even capable of love? Why is he oblivious to the perfect match that is so obvious to you? Frustration is common in the early and middle stages of relationships because love is so different for men and women. If you want to make him fall in love, you’re going to have to conquer that gender barrier before your relationship falls apart.
Men have just as much capacity for love and devotion as women do, but falling in love is a whole different process for them. Women seek love and find a man; men seek women and find love. Uh…what
Remember how he wanted to take you camping but you kept resisting and resisting because you were sure it would be awful? And then when you finally tried it out, you really loved it.
The point is you tried camping, and within that experience you found a special kind of splendor and satisfaction that made you love it. But that isn’t what you were seeking when you tried camping
That’s how love is for men. They discover it quite unexpectedly by experiencing a uniquely thrilling and complete woman—like you. Not by having somebody blather on about how great love is and how ignorant they are not to try it. Was it his harping that made you love camping? Or was it your experience and personal discovery?
You tried camping for the promise and physical gratification of swimming and toasted marshmallows, but you came back for the totally exhilarating and fulfilling experience. Are you with me? Guys don’t really get swept off their feet in the same way that we do. They may be blown away by your tender kiss and killer legs. But that’s just not the same. They need an emotional connection to develop a needy addiction for you. But it is a healthy addiction that will make him fall in love with you, if you can truly become part of his life and his history.
While he’s busy trying to get between your knees, you need to be getting between his ears. The brain is the real sex organ, love organ, and commitment organ all rolled into one. When he is thinking about his life, he has to see images of you in it. Don’t let every date end up in the bedroom, or you risk becoming a fling. Do things and go places he hasn’t been.
Go to the science museum and art fair and the rodeo in the next county. Go fishing, play tennis, go Rollerblading together. Be sure to visit his friends and your friends, and family if you can. Live life together. Share experiences together. Then you will find yourself talking to him about a big wide world of exciting things, and not about the fatal topic of why he doesn’t love you yet. Let your touch and your actions say everything you want him to know about your feelings, and make the real conversations about real life.
If you want to build a history with images of you more quickly, try going to three places on one date. Take just a few pictures at each place, and give him one picture of the two of you together. A stack of pictures will end up in the drawer, but one will be cherished. If you understand your man and are tuned in to his pathway to love, you really can make him fall in love with you.
